Incitement

The act or an instance of exciting came my way yesterday. Intensity of feeling or reaction to receive the call from my BEST friend Mierra. The fact is this was not the whole reason for my excitement. But for the first time I heard Prakash's (her hubby) voice. Since me and mierra are friends for the last 7+ yrs this is the first time I spoke to Prakash.

I knew him (heard from Mierra) and use to probe about him to Mierra and the chance of speaking to him and her kid 'Sandy' is the surprise new year gift for me. Overall the instance made my day with a wide smile. Good luck to you guys 'Mierra Prakash and Sandy' and advanced New year wishes!

Mr.H

Abuse over the Community

I've been surfing 'rediff.com' since I am a regular user here to read/search for some good stuff's in the website. I was anxiously looking at the articles about the assassination of former Pakistan Prime Minister.

With such an article 'A caring wife, loving mother and courageous leader' dated on 'December 28, 2007' I got a chance to look at the Discussion Board and was in the position to report that user as an 'ABUSE'.

Please go ahead and see the screenshot attached.



These kind of Anti-Social elements are diseases; equivalent to eradication.

Mr.H

Perspective (a) Lookout

Rahul was in a sad mood when Anu joined him in the balcony. Anu asked mischievously if he had lost a fortune when his ship sank. Rahul said “I was worried about some problems at work”. Anu was not just a good wife but she had always stayed a good friend since their marriage. So he explained the major politics happening at the highest level in office and how the morale of the team was low. Many of his colleagues were bitter and were planning to quit at the first opportunity they get. Rahul explained that the very thought of going to office irritated him these days. Anu tried giving some suggestions but Rahul was too negative to take any of them. He said “it is easier for you to suggest Anu. You should come to office and experience what we go through”. She smiled and said “let us hope things would improve. We cant do anything else. Let us sleep now”.

Rahul moved slowly to the bedroom. He watched Anu entering the next bedroom. He called out “are you not joining me tonight dear?”. She replied “No. You are too negative today. I guess I need to be alone to get some good sleep”. He asked sadly “do you want to leave me alone tonight?”. She said “Not like that. I need to be alone dear. Sleep tight. Good night” and locked her room from inside. He feebly returned her greeting with a good night wish.

Rahul was feeling miserable partly from his office worries and felt worse because he could not get his dear Anu to comfort him now. He could not get sleep. He walked out of his room and looked at the next bedroom door. He was wiser not to knock at the door. When she said something, she always meant it. Tonight, if she wanted to be alone, he dared not question it. He was a bit surprised that the window closer to that door was not properly closed. He tried opening the window and it opened. He knew that he could reach one of the door latches through the window but if she had put the second latch, the door cannot be opened from outside. He stretched his hand and tried opening the first latch. With difficulty, he opened it. Then he tried if the door was opening and it did. Good she had not remembered to put the second latch, he thought.

He slowly walked in. If she was aware of his presence in the room, she did not show it. Soon he moved closer to her. Anu said in a surprised tone “how come you managed to find an entry?”. Ravi said “I found a way out. To be precise, I found a way in”. Anu said “Rahul. Please go away”. He said “No. I wont and I cant”.

Anu said “hey. You are pressing me hard”.

Rahul replied “I want to”.

“So you don’t care about me?”.

“Who said so? I know you don’t mind my presence too”.

She paused for a moment and then asked “Rahul. Are you happy now?”. He said “I am mighty happy now. You saw how smartly I won finally now. Are you happy too?”. She said “I am happy for you. I want you to be happy always”. Rahul asked “You saying initially that u wanted to be alone and leaving the window open were all part of the plan to make me feel happy?”. Anu said “Yes it was my plan. Had you not known it, I would not have told you”. Rahul was nearly in tears when he said “I love you”. They both melted in each other’s arms for the next half an hour. Later, Rahul said “we never value the good things that we have. We always worry about those things that we don’t have. You are the best thing in my life and why should I worry about anything else?”. Anu smiled and said “I just wish to be as good as you are. You are the best thing in my life too”.

Mr.H

Dialogue

There's many a days in the past three months that I need to remember. Though I had many personal trouble/worries for not smiling but I strongly believe there's definitely a gang of guys for my smile. I would like to write their names here

1. Nathan (Mike)
2. Sathish (Ayar (a) Madurayila)
3. James (Jamie)
4. Last but not least Raja (Rowdy raja (a) salem (a) Leggu dhadha)

and a line of dialogues delivered by these guys.

1. Dialogue from 'Rowdy Raja'

"Enaku puliyoda vaala irukaratha vida poonayoda moonjiya irukarathuthan pidikum"

The final touch is amazing after this dialogue that's nothing but 'Myaaaw'. Pheww!

2. Nathan (Mike) The water bed

"A$$hole", "A$$hole", "A$$hole" The way he delivers this is amazing. He puts in a lot of Accent that he got trained from Accenture Bangalore LOLz.

3. James (Jamie) Kolandhai

"Boss, Tequila", "Residency", "Bill", "Booze", "Yezdi", "Mettupalayam". Ppl who doesn't find anything interesting with this guys dialogue can feel sorry. But he is the pillar here ;-)

4. Ayar (Sathish) Madurayilaaaaa

This guy sounds a typical Madurai guy. His accent puts him in a place where everyone will see him as a 'Thatha' uf 'Dhadha'. He is the middle of everyone's attention. Whatever ppl say he will immediately jump into the topic with 'Madurayilaa'.

For example, when I talk something about Computers...Read the conversation

Anonymous : This book seems to be interesting
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : Look at the Rainbow
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : What's the time?
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : Look at the beautiful bird (girl)
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : Water
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : Appuram (Then)
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : ???!!!!
Ayar : Madurayila
Anonymous : Acho amma thirumbavuma??? (Oh my god another time???)
Ayar : Madurayila

Then what? Anonymous is running like anything LOLz!

Mr.H

Ennai yedho seithuvittal- She has done an injury!

To give an account of speech or writing about yesterday's....The time was around 21.00 PM I was waiting for the cab near Peelamedu (Coimbatore). That was the moment I need to recall for even now. That delight the senses, especially the sense of sight! There was a BIRD who crossed me was the thing that I am describing about..! I strongly believe that I almost forgot to blink the eyelids for atleast a minute.

I could recall an American poet's line's here

There was a little girl Who had a little curl Right in the middle of her forehead, When she was good She was very, very good, But when she was bad she was horrid. — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, (1807-1882)

Can I say 'Wherever you go my Network follows' just like the HUTCH ad (Now its Vodafone). Hmmm, anyways thanks to the obscure for this FEEL good FEEL!

Mr.H

Iru kangal sollum.....kathal seidhi

This is one of the best songs from the movie 'Kadhal Samrajyam' that I remember in my life. Thanks to Jamuna who introduced this song to me early 2002. So I dedicate this lyrics to Jam.

Here we go with the lyrics

iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
ennodu naan paesa kannaadi sirikkindradhe
en udal yeano aadaigaL veRukkindradhey
varuvaai nee oar muRai dhaan
oru naaLil en vaazhvil
en naga kaNNum kaNNeeril nanaighindradhey

iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai

en paerai kaettaalae un paerai solgindraen
en nizhal kooda neeyaaga therigindradhey
en kaNNil mai ezhudhi un kaNNai paarkkindraen
naan udai maatra adhu saelai aagindradhey
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai


nee poarthiya poarvai vaendumae
kanavu dhinam dhaanae kaetkindradhey
nee paarthadhil kaayam aanadhey
valigaL un paarvai paarkkindradhey
kooraana nagathaalae kolvaai kaNNae
adi poaraadi thoaRkathaan sollvaai kaNNae
nee poovaalae paai poadu
rojakkaL vaendaamae
kuththum mutkaL kuththum

iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai

yaen sirikkiRaen udalai neLikkiRaen
irandu thalaiyaNaigal naan kaetkiraen
nee mattuma naanum naNbanai
irukki aNaithaenae purighindradhaa
nee neeraadum neer aLLi kudippaen anbe
en kaadhoaram un moochil thudippaen anbe
un kazhuthoaram nuni naakkaal
oru koalam varaindhaalae
poadhum kaNNae poadhum

iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai

ennodu naan paesa kannaadi sirikkindradhe
en udal aeno aadaigaL veRukkindradhey
en paerai kaettaalae un paerai solgindraen
en nizhal kooda neeyaaga therigindradhey

iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai
iru kaNgaL sollum kaadhal seidhi
un kaadhal seiyum leelai ingae konjam illai

Mr.H

Come back Ecstasy

This week or probably the whole couple of months bundled with indistinct. I have been walking through the rough patch battling between heart and the brain. From long days in the field needing something the most but all went in a vain. Well Someone's pain is someone gain? Or it could be reciprocative by saying "Its that pain for gain"?!

Wondering what makes the chemistry chucked?! Well well its again a part and its not the packaged bundle. Now or never I would like to see the most horrible instance in my life. NO! Anymore!

Now I am feeling sick for the past couple of days and the illness has closely shot a snap with my close buddies including Mike who is willing to break the pain in his legs. Today, it was such a horrible day that Arun has met with an accident and hospitalized. Well all these pains will ever be removed? Yes! And I am looking forward for the brightest morning for all these guys including me to see the sunlight, a can of beer, a salsa, a a a a a.

No one can stop the sunlight that shed lights on us even if our hands like to...! As ever positive I will recall "Changes are only constant".

Mr.H

Kathalikka Neramillai - Sollapadatha Kathal Kathai --> Vijay TV KNI

Star Vijay is one of the 'Stylish' channels that I tune in very often. It is hot with a new baked love story 'Kathalikka Neramillai' with a sub-title 'Sollapadatha Kadhal'.



Looking at the title and its sub-title, predicting that it could be a romantic flick that has never seen the lights is what everyone think. Why me is the exception? Could be something related to Friendship, Marriage, Love, Live-in, Flirt and baked with lot of emotions?!

This is what Star Vijay says about the 'NewBee'

Amidst the chaos of everyday lives, do young professionals (striving to make it big in the corporate ladder) have any time for personal relationships, develop it and make them blossom? This is a story of any young professional in urban cities across the world and that’s exactly what Vijay’s new serial Kadhalika Neramillai is all about.

Kadhalikka Neramillai is a story of two young people Sakthi and Divya caught in the turmoil of life in a metro. Two strong individuals with their own mindsets, their expectations of life; come together by chance and take matters in their own hands and don’t let society or community take their decisions.

Amidst a whirlpool of emotions, what does love mean to them; their search for answers to life’s difficult question about love lost and found forms the essence of the series.

The one beautiful thing about this serial is it was shot exclusively in Singapore. It is fresh, stylish and adorable (Hope I too visit those places soon ;-))

After all I am pretty much impressed with the Music and its Lyrics. Here we go listen to the song from

http://vijay.indya.com/serials/kni/index.html

and here is the lyrics (that too in my own loveable Mother Tongue 'Tamil').

என்னை தேடி காதல் என்ற வார்த்தை அனுப்பு
உன்னை தேடி வாழ்வின் மொத்த அர்த்தம் தருவேன்
செல்லரிக்கும் தனிமையில் செத்துவிடுமுன் செய்தி அனுப்பு ஒ..

என்னிடத்தில் தேக்கிவைத்த காதல் முழுதும் –
உன்னிடத்தில் கொண்டு வர தெரியவில்லை
காதலதை சொல்லுகின்ற வழி தெரிந்தால் சொல்லி அனுப்பு ஒ..

பூக்கள் உதிரும் சாலை வழியே பேசி செல்கிறேன்
மரங்கள் கூட நடப்பது போல நினைத்து கொள்கிறேன்
கடிதம் ஒன்றில் கப்பல் செய்து மழையில் விடுகிறேன்
கனவில் மட்டும் காதல் செய்து இரவை கொல்கிறேன்

என்னை தேடி காதல் என்ற வார்த்தை அனுப்பு
உன்னை தேடி வாழ்வின் மொத்த அர்த்தம் தருவேன்
செல்லரிக்கும் தனிமையில் செத்துவிடுமுன் செய்தி அனுப்பு ஒ..

யாரோ ? உன் காதலில் வாழ்வது யாரோ ?-
உன் கனவினில் நிறைவது யாரோ ? என் சலனங்கள் தீர்த்திட வாராயோ !?

ஏனோ என் இரவுகள் நீள்வது, ஏனோ ? ஒரு பகல் எனை சுடுவது ஏனோ,?
என் தனிமையின் அவஸ்தைகள் தீராதோ..?

காதல் தர நெஞ்ஜம் காத்துயிருக்கு காதலிக்க அங்கு நேரம் இல்லையா ?
இலையை போல் என் இதயம் தவறி விழுது..

Key factors

# The music was composed by Vijay Antony (Dishum, Nan Avan Illai fame)
# The lyrics are penned by Thenmozhi Das (Kudos)

Mr.H

ID10T

Fictional prose tale (Short story)

Parnita : Why this PC always having 'Joy of not working'!! If it works throwing me a lot of errors that I need more than a couple of eyes to watch and get excited (sadly)?! Hassy, hey hassy where are you now? And what (who) are you looking outside? Hassssssy????

Hassy : Oh oh yea, parni just look at the Mercedes Benz S Class uf huh?! When the Mercedes is gonna b lucky?

Parnita : What re? Watz this? Haan? What do you mean by Mercedes lucky??? My PC is not working re...?

Hassy : Who, What, When, Where, Why....I think you love the words/sentences that starts with 'W'. As you call me Mr.H should I call you Ms.W? Wooo hoooooo!!!

Parnita : Hassy, why can't you stop doing this? When you gonna do this for me? Come on dear and looook at this error since you are a techie (as u always say 'Am a Tech Savvy') why not you fix it for me? Why not you fix it for your sweetheart?

Hassy : LOLz, c c c how many why's and when's in the phrase..! WOW! hey huh ummmm yummmy!!

Parnita : What? What ra? hey hassy Whattttttt?

Hassy : Pheww!! The girl looks hottttttttttt!

Parnita : Grrrr! Wwwwwwhhhhhhaaaaatttt?

Hassy : Ouch! (as usual acting by hitting at the back of my head) The grill (chicken in the hot pack) looks so hot and it must be tasty....sorry spelling error (As usual, me giving the lecture "An error doesn't become a mistake unless and until if you refuse to recover it"--> for 100000000000th time to her hehehehe)

Parnita : Hmmm, good samalification re!

Now hassy clicked on a couple of buttons and resolved the issue. Suddenly Parnita emotionally aroused and jumping with joy and trying to hug hassy ;-)

Hassy : Na, na, na me YEGA(not MANY)pathini virathan (putting bittu hmmmm)

Puzzled parnita's face expresses a lot of red,green,yellow lights (just like our own tamil cinema) mari mari and then calming down (there is no other go?!) and asks


Parnita : impossible???!

Hassy : No, I am possible!

Parnita : Na re I mean how did u fixed that error? Wondering man!!

Hassy : ID10T

Parnita : What wwhhaatt wwwhhhaaattt wwwwhhhhaaaatttt (that vathu I mean what continues)

Hassy : hey hey listen dear, that's not Idiot! That's an ID Ten T Error. Udane (immediately) don't jump on to me I am an innocent guy! (Ayyo pavam)

After this conversation, as ever hassy refers Wikipedia URL

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ID-Ten-T_Error

to show her that he is a 'Tech Savvy' (poor girl...!!!)

Mr.H

Breakfast

It was called involuntary fast of sleep. But due to the heavy load (wink) of food and improper sleep brought my photosensitive device go off and on for sometime Pheww!! Then came this eliciting wonder (girl :-)) launching with what her grani said "Vayiru gummuna kannu jimmungum".

LOLz, but as said by many 'I'm back'. But I uttered this in my own gravity.

Mr.H

My return

Heya howdy doody guys n gals? Its been of quite a long time right?! Yes! I am glad to see you back via blogging. To start with I would like to make you all put up a wide smile with my return.

One of my friends sent me a couple of articles which is really really good to go through. Here's the count down starts......

He and She get married. Since He is based in europe, he had planned for a trip to italy to celebrate their honeymoon. Its an arranged marriage, and He is trying his level best to impress She atleast in the 1st week. Moreover He is a big fan of Hindi movies, and is spoiled by watching movies of karan joker err karan johar etc. So he had bought a diamond pendant, and wanted to surprise she during their honeymoon trip. He and She reach Venice. Though it’s a bit costly, He had booked a Gondole(Gondola) boat. He made sure that, there is live music in the Gondole boat, where in a guy plays that bulbuldhaara(I am not sure about the spelling) and guitar. He quietly tells the boat guys of his plan. That is, after a point of time once the boat reaches a secluded street with serene atmosphere they should play the music of ‘Titanic’. He will kneel in front of she in one leg, and present her the diamond pendant. Stupid fellow. Romba padam paathu kettu poi irukaan. Anyways, coming back

She: Wow. This place is so nice. Amazing!
He: Semma romantic aa irukku la.
She: Yes. Eppadi irukku ella edamum. Wow.

At that time, the instrumentalists start playing music. She is majorly impressed. Ofcourse with Venice and music only. He tries to hold her hand, but then she doesn’t pay much attention. She is awed by the surroundings. He is getting impatient. Finally they reach the secluded street. The guys start playing Titanic music. On cue, he gets up in style and tries to bend on knee. She is surprised and looks at He with curiosity. She is not sure, what He is upto. At that moment, there are some waves due to which the boat shakes and He falls flat near She’s feet. Thamizh la sollanumnaa, dhideernu damaal nu vizhundhutaan.
She screams : Enna panreenga
He: err
Slowly he gets up and sits next to her.
She: Ellarukkum munnadi ennadhu idhu
He: Illama. Vandhu.
He tries to take the gift box
She: Enna gift idhu. Golusaa? Golusu maati vida dhaan try paneengaLa?
He: Illai. Idhu
She: ippadiya golusu maati viduvaa. Naan ennamo edho nnu bayandhutten
He: Keezha vizhundhutten maa.
She: Ayyo yen? Madhyanam wine adicha effect aa? Idhukkudhaan sonnen. Vendaam nu
He: Hey wait. I got you a diamond pendant. Idho paaru. Adha style aa kodukkalaamnu try pannen. Appo slip aagi vizhundhutten
She bursts out laughing. Adaavadhu gubeer nu sirichitaa. Looking at her, even the boat guys start laughing and He asadu vazhinjifies

Mr.H

Work/Life balance matters.

I remember 'Graeme Edwards' quote “It’s not the plan that is important, it’s the planning.”

I have been thinking a lot about career growth lately, and as a Team Lead or better called as a Team player, have been generally concerned with making sure there are growth opportunities, regardless of the level or the point in the career.

This often put me in the place of silence. Because, I knew from where I started my career (my close buddies know about this and me) and how I travelled, the pain, the fire, the lonely roads(though many ppl to recall but only a few like me walked jobless) but how I am now and where I am now everything gives me the chance to ask me a lot of "????'s'".

As a matter of fact, for most of my career, I never had anyone watching out for me of guide me. For the first part of my career, I don’t even think much about my long-term career because of the darkness (which I was travelling). It just happen into new opportunities that taught me new skills and kept me growing everyday. But there was no plan, no goal other than 'To be asked to work diligently'.

The point in the bigger picture, no one is going to look after your career for you, but you.

I heard that I am not scoring but I knew my direction is right on track. I dream a lot that dream gave me the courage to face the world. When I stop, turn left and right 'NO' there was no one walking with me but my mumma standing there to watch me with tears filled eyes to see her baby taste the 'Success'.

After I was done, I realized that most of what I put down for a five-year plan could be done in a year. But it took me write down the notes and see to make it happen. This was also a good tool for working with my boss/manager/godfather (a couple of my motivators Mr.Krishna Prasath.P, Mr.Balaji (VCann), Mr.Ramesh (Shiva Steels)and Mr.Herald J George) to recall to craft training and work opportunities for me to meet my goals. I also made sure that these goals included in life are personal goals as well as career goals. The older I get the more I realize that these are intertwined and success in one space brings success to others. Work/Life balance matters.

In an effort to make this anecdote meaningful to you, I’d like to share the steps and some resources I used to help me prepare my five-year goals.

The Template:

1. Your Name
2. Today’s Date
This is important as you reflect back on this document. This will become a touchstone for your growth and a reminder of who you were as you look back at what was important to you in this point in time.
3. 3–6 Months
* Start small.
* Think about short-term goals that are easily achieved but will also help move you towards the longer-term goals.
* Include some tangible goals.
4. 6–12 Months
* Start thinking bigger here—this is planning for a year out.
* What new skills do you want to learn?
* What new ideas do you want to share with others?
* What changes do you want to make? Put them down here along with the steps needed to take to make them happen.
5. Beyond 12 Months
* Capture specific plans that you know may take more than a year to get to or accomplish. For me, it was to work on Multiple platform.
* Be realistic but not afraid to reach. Visualize success in areas you may have little control over. Don’t be afraid to write down a desired goal that may be a stretch.
6. Longer-term Goals
* This is the area to think out for the next 3–5 years, including life beyond the company or situation you are currently in. For me, I listed “My Business Dreams” as a goal. This reminds me that I want to do this and I need to make certain decisions and changes in order to make it happen.

If I decide at a later time, that I don’t really want to do this, I should remove it off the plan.
7. Opportunities to Explore at Your Company
* List all the training and coaching opportunities relevant and currently available at your company.
* Note relationships that need to be cultivated at your company in order to meet success.

Note: This obviously may not apply if you are an independent consultant. Think about other opportunities that might be available through professional associations and networking instead.
8. Skills to Develop
* Project what skills you need to develop to reach the goals you listed in the first part of this exercise.
* What other skills do you need, besides the ones you have now, to attain your goal?

Since I am a Team Lead or better called as a Team player and this is the area in which I have been growing, I listed things such as Confidence and Effectiveness—along with ideas on how to master these more intangible skills.

Over the last couple of years, I have purposely put myself into situations to gain confidence—especially when giving presentations. Think about starting slow and building on your successes.
In addition, I also listed skills of associated/allied roles that I would like to learn in order to make myself a more well-rounded and effective manager in my company.
9. What I Care About in a Work Environment
* This may seem frivolous or not important to the task at hand, but it serves to remind you of the values you need to share with the company you work for. As you grow or the company changes this can help guide you when you need to make a change.
10. Personal Goals
* Don’t forget the personal goals that you need to weave into your life. It never hurts to write these down as a reminder of work/life balance and of the things that are really important to you as a person.

Unending love

This is one of the most beautiful poem which I have ever read in my life.

I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times,
In life after life, in age after age forever.
My spell-bound heart has made and re-made the necklace of songs
That you take as a gift, wear round your neck in your many forms
In life after life, in age after age forever.

Whenever I hear old chronicles of love, its age-old pain,
Its ancient tale of being apart or together,
As I stare on and on into the past, in the end you emerge
Clad in the light of a pole-star piercing the darkness of time:
You become an image of what is remembered forever.

You and I have floated here on the stream that brings from the fount
At the heart of time love of one for another.
We have played alongside millions of lovers, shared in the same
Shy sweetness of meeting, the same distressful tears of farewell-
Old love, but in shapes that renew and renew forever.

Today it is heaped at your feet, it has found its end in you,
The love of all man's days both past and forever:
Universal joy, universal sorrow, universal life,
The memories of all loves merging with this one love of ours-
And the songs of every poet past and forever.

By,
Rabindranath Tagore (Tagore the great)

Mr.H

Empty hours

Fruitless! Even the snow falls outside, the feel good climate, seasons one wishes could remain for just a little longer rather than exiting so quickly, the thunder and the lightening, sunlight parallels.......

But am Lacking purpose or substance? Doesn't it meaningful with this big empty space? Can I come out? Could I?

Yes yes yes, 'U' will definitely fill up this space! By the way Whoz that 'U'???

Mr.H

Candlelight Dinner

You cannot just dream of having a candle light dinner all of a sudden. You have to decide before hand and think of it before making it happen. This is what I hear from all the 4 direction (East, West, North and South). According to me that isn't true :-) Today, I really had a nice dinner with my friend (P.S. not a girl). But with my mama Sathish.

We had a sunny day but later warmed up by traveling in 70 to office for shift. Evening we had 'Cappuccino Coffee' from the opposite Cafe day (hehehe) and then comes this 'Candlelight Dinner'. This is not a preplanned one. We had a plan to go for a break together and that too for dinner to fill something. I drove Viki's RX towards Maruthamalai and on the left side comes this star hotel "Hotel 7 Star".

Wow, wow wow the traditional motel type star hotel with the brownish-black design everywhere (that's because of the Lignite they use for cooking ;-)) Fortunately or unfortunately there is no power so no other go apart from saying OK to the hi-fi (techie guys not Wi-fi LOLz) 'Candlelight'.

Overall it was a cool dinner with my chilly friend "Mathura mathura than" :-) Mama, cheer up!

Mr.H

Mission

A big challenge in building a creative company is learning how to bring fresh input into your daily business life. Finding ways to continually broaden your perspective and find inspiration is one of the most basic creative skills.

Seeking new input is too important to leave to chance encounters. To help you step out of status-quo thinking, you must do the following: 1. Commit to the importance of a continual flow of new input.

2. Cultivate a curious mind that continually asks "I wonder what would happen if...?"

3. Find new sources of input.

Once you accomplish the first two, almost any environment or conversation can spark new thoughts. These simple ideas can get you started: * Go to events where you'll meet people outside your usual sphere--people from different industries or from other countries, or people who have interests different from yours. Unlike a networking event, you are prospecting for new ideas, not new contacts. Of course, you might also leave with some promising business cards.

* Go to places you don't usually go. If you're looking for innovative ideas for a store display, check out places that sell something you don't and that have a completely different customer demographic.

How one store sells sports equipment may give you an idea about how you should sell your bakery goods. Trying the unconventional is a proven way to get your customers' attention.

* Read a book or magazine that introduces you to a new industry, hobby, place or interest. For example, if you have a contracting or interior design business, looking at a book on animal habitats may be the catalyst for an innovative solution. Specialty catalogs, coffee-table books and even greeting cards are rich in images and words that may inspire you--often, the more unusual, the better.

* Seek input from people within your company who don't usually get a chance to share their ideas.

* Let yourself follow a hunch or whimsy, and see what it teaches you. Remember, inspiration is not tied to the practical or feasible. You may want to begin carrying a small notebook or create a file in your PDA to record any new ideas or creative thoughts. Once you're in the habit of being open to receiving ideas, they'll start flooding in anytime and at anyplace.

Mr.H

TN 39 S 3818

The composed climate with tears sloping downward from the sky (almost everywhere until my vision goes on). Now its 7.24 PM (9th Sep '07). Its been a long time since I remember ma first love. But I can't forget that. The craziness is not just because of the craze but "appropriately passionate".

I still remember ma childhood days sitting in the "Thinnai" (I don't know the exact word in English) thinking that I am driving the "Bike". Then a small stool (A backless and armless single seat supported on legs or a pedestal) with my father's old Ind-Suzuki keys tied with a piece of vest cloth.

When my 'Nannatha' (granpa (a) nana) asked "What do you want da kanna?" I replied him I badly need a "Durra" (bike lolz). My lovable 'Nannatha' still remembers that :-) So how can I forget "Ma very first love" haan? That's none other than ma bike 'Suzuki Max 100'. Well well, now I am really focussed to drive a 4 wheeler for me n ma family. A dream of owning one for me :-) I really want to give them comfort all the time. Making them smile smile and smile. A comfortable old age to my gold grandparents.

Wish me good luck!

Mr.H

Poetry or Mystery?

If I ever get an opportunity to born again....

would it be possible to born on her eyes?
Would it be possible to drop into her cheeks?
Would it be possible to die on her lips?

Guess what? Its 'Tears'

Mr.H

Akkavin Thambi

He and She are going on Airport road by Car

She: Hey inniku Sani Peyarchi
He: Oh. By the way, un thambi kku transfer aaidutha?
She: Sani peyrachi pathi sonna, en thambi pathi kaekkara? En thambiya sani nu solriya?
He: Che che. Ippo ‘Intel’ office cross panninom la. I was reminded of your brother. Naan adha kaekkaradhuku munnadi nee Sani peyarchi pathi sollite. Coincidence

She: Enna viLayadariya? En thambi eppolendhu Intel la velai paakaran?
He: No no. Nyabagam irukka? He was wearing a T Shirt ‘Mental Inside’ making fun of that ‘Intel Inside’ advt. So intel paatha udane mental nyabagam vandadhu. Appuram un thambi nyabagam
She: Modhal la sani. Ippo next mental
He: See. I am telling you that it was a coincidence
She: Ennatha coincidence o. Enakku yerkanave en thambiya nenacha kashtama irukku
He: Yaen? He is fine no?
She: Illai. Avanukku innum kalyanam aagaliye. Amma kku ore tension idhanaala
He: Avan happy aa enjoy paNNindu dhaane irukaan. Ellathukkum time nu onnu irukku illaiya. Dont worry
She: Hmmm
He: naan venumna en friends circle la kaekkatta?
She: Seri. Aaamam. What do you mean by avan happy aa dhaane irukaan? Kalyanam aana enjoy panna mudiyadho?
He: Panlaame. But adhu different.
She: Different na?
He: I mean bachelor life fun.
She: Ippa mattum enna vaazhudhaam? You still attend parties. Appuram ishtathukku dhaan ezhundhukare. Nenacha bodhu enna izhuthundu picnic pore. Oru sports program vidaradhu illai. And naan avlova shopping kkum unnai kootindu poradhu illai. Appuram enna enjoyment?
He: Yes I know. I am very lucky to have you. Naan eppadi bayandhen theriyuma before marriage. About how my wife will be. Am really lucky.
(Saying this he smiles at her)
She: ada ada ada
He: Enna?
She: Illai. Nee periya aaLu dhaan
He: Huh?
She: Illai. Naan kaetta keLvikku badhil solla mudiyalai unnala. So ippadi thideernu sweet aa pesi madakka paarkariye. Adha sonnen.
He: Appadi ellam illai. Seri vidu. Nee ippo un appave pathi pesa poriya?
She: Illaiye. Yaen?
He: Anga road la munnadi oru auto eppadi medhuva poraan paaru. Erumai maadu appadinu thittalaam nu irukken. Nee thideernu un appava pathi pesa poga, naan erumai maadu nu solli maRubadiyum kozhappam aagidum. Adhaan. he he
She: !!!!!!!

அல்வா

நம்ம கதையோட நாயகன் ஒரு திருமணத்துக்கு போறார். உறவினர் வீட்டு கல்யாணம். போன உடனே அம்மா எங்கே அப்படின்னு தேடறார். அம்மா ஒரு மாமி கூடவும் ஒரு அழகான பொண்ணு கூடவும் பேசிட்டு இருக்காங்க. சார் கொஞ்சம் நைஸா அம்மணியை சைட் அடிக்கறார். தலைல இல்லாத முடியை கோதி விட்டுக்கறார்.
அம்மா: இவ்வளவு நேரமா வரத்துக்கு? கொஞ்ச நேரம் கழிச்சு வந்திருந்தா தாலியே கட்டி முடிச்சிருப்பா
அவன்: தூங்கிட்டேன்மா. நைட் பஸ்ல தூக்கமே இல்லை
(அம்மா கூட பேசிட்டு இருந்தாலும் அய்யா கவனம் எல்லாம் அம்மணி மேல தான். இது போறாதுன்னு அவங்க இவரை பார்த்து ஒரு சிறிய புன்முறுவல் புரிய தலைவர் இஸ்ரொ உதவியில்லாமயே விண்வெளில பறக்கறார்.)

அம்மா: சரி. பக்கத்தாத்துல சாவி கொடுத்துட்டு வந்தியா? வேலைக்காரி 11 மணிக்கு வருவா
அவன்: கொடுத்துட்டேன்மா!
அம்மா: சரி. நீ போய் டிபன் சாப்பிடு. மேடைல கூப்படறா. நான் வரேன்
அவன்: சரி மா.
(அம்மணி இன்னும் அங்கயேதான் இருக்காங்க)
அவள்: நீங்க பெங்களூர்ல வேலை பார்க்கறேளா? அம்மா சொன்னா
அவன்: ஆமாம். மன்னார் & கம்பெனில வேலை
அவள்: சரி வாங்கோ சாப்டுண்டே பேசலாம்
அவன்: நீங்களும் பெங்களூரா?
அவள்: இல்லை. நான் ப்ரியா
அவன்: என்னது?
அவள்:என் பேர் ப்ரியான்னு சொன்னேன்
அவன்: ஹி ஹி
அவள்: நான் மெட்ராஸ் தான்
எதிர்பார்க்காம அம்மணியே பேச ஆரம்பிச்சதுல மனுஷனுக்கு தலைகால் புரியலை.
அவன்: இந்த வாட்டி மெட்ராஸ்ல செம்ம வெயில்
அவள்: வருஷாவருஷம் இருக்கறதுதானே
அவன்: இந்த வருஷம் ஜாஸ்தியா இருக்கற மாதிரி இருக்கு
அவள்: உங்க ஊர்ல எப்படி இருக்கு?
அவன்: கிட்டதட்ட இப்படி தான் இருக்கு. ஆனா இப்படி வேர்க்காது
அவள்: அடுத்த வாரம் நான் அங்கே வரேன்
அவன்: ஓ! ஏதாவது வேணும்னா சொல்லுங்கோ
அவள்: கண்டிப்பா சொல்றேன். நீங்க எவ்ளோ வருஷமா அங்க இருக்கீங்க?
அவன்: ஒரு நாலு வருஷமா
அவள்: ஓ. அப்ப நன்னா பழகி இருக்கும் ஊரு.
(சொல்லிட்டு அவனோட இலையை அம்மணி பார்த்து)
அவள்: உங்களுக்கு கல்கண்டு அல்வா போட்டாளோ?
அவன்: இல்லையே? லேட் ஆயிடுத்துல. அதான் காலியாகிருக்கும். பரவால்லே விடுங்கோ
அவள்: அதெப்படி. ஏன்னா இங்க வாங்கோ. சார்க்கு கல்கண்டு அல்வா போட சொல்லுங்கோ
(பட்டு வேட்டி ஜிப்பாவோட ஒருத்தர் வறார்)
அவள்: இவர்தான் என் ஹஸ்பெண்ட். நாங்க தான் இந்த கல்யாண்த்திக்கு கேடரிங்க். இப்படி பண்ணி போர் அடிச்சு போச்சு. அதான் பெங்களூர்ல ஏதவது சாப்ட்வேர் கம்பெனிக்கு டெய்லி காண்ட்ராக்ட் போடுக்கலாம்னு தோண்றது. உங்க நம்பர் கொடுங்கோ. உங்க உதவி கண்டிப்பா தேவைப்படும்
அவன்: !!!!!

Fallen in Love

The pictures that stole my heart.



















Mr.H

How normal are you?

You Are 40% Normal

While some of your behavior is quite normal... Other things you do are downright strange You've got a little of your freak going on But you mostly keep your weirdness to yourself

How Normal Are You?

Nightmare

Heya howdy doody guys n gals?

This is not a post about how I have not written in this blog for a while. Instead its about what I have been doing. Lots?! No, I have been suffering a lot. As said by Mother Teresa "There is much suffering in the world - physical, material, mental".

I can feel this at the right time or at the imprecise minutes??! Well well, in the human race it is an acceptable truth to face dark and the bright! In the recent past I have seen incredible things which I haven't even dreamt of in my life! But I remember one of my colleague writes in the first page of his notebook "Expect the unexpected". Thanks to Arun.

The pain, the loneliness, the disappointment, the emotional disorder, the injury, the angry, the hurt, the tears, the Clamor, the silence, the yelling, finally now I am keeping up a very low profile.

"You are not the same Hasan is what I hear from my loved one's". Yes, I knew that I am not the same Hasan but I cannot or I will not continue this Hasan anymore. It may take a little time to come back with full spirit. But nothing is impossible, always 'I'm possible'. Come on Mr.H, you can definitely come out from all the -ve's is what I speak to myself.

Truth is the cry of all, but the game of the few. Yes, the game of an unpleasant feelings is getting out slowly and I will definitely bounce back. I am going to taste/feel the success for sure. Because I am BORN TO WIN!

Mr.H

Facing her own heart!

Jennifer Sutton 23, recently visited her own heart at an exhibition in London. Jenni received a heart transplant and her original ticker is on display as part of the Welcome Collection's educational exhibition.



"Seeing my heart for the first time is an emotional and surreal experience. It caused me so much pain and turmoil when it was inside me. Seeing it sitting here is extremely bizarre and very strange. Finally I can see this odd looking lump of muscle that has given me so much upset. It's tremendous it has become an object of fascination and will get people thinking about the disease, heart transplants and organ donation."

Mr.H

Horrendous brutality

This day wasn't good enough for many including me. The twin blasts at Hyderabad really shattered many hearts and their dreams. WTF? What the hell you Fu*****rs need? Don't you know the value of a soul???? If you Anti-social elements need a revenge go ahead with the proper channel but why the INNOCENTIES?

As my manager said this is a 'Horrendous brutality' for sure. No humanity?! I feel like crying, I choke; forcing myself to be strong and telling myself I shouldn’t let anything affect me. Even so, my tears welled up and starts to flow. Wiped those beads trying to avoid letting anybody catch me with them.

The peace offering, which we will consider this morning, is a picture of another of the basic and fundamental needs of human beings. Lost is lost but we can pray for the souls "Rest in Peace" and a courage to their families and friends.

Mr.H

B'day

A message from a heart to .....!

Which has been pending for quite a long time in my can but finally I want it to be published. Wishing her a great future ahead!

Here it is.....

Today is a very Special Day of Mah Life…. Its mah Honey’s Birthday!! It’s just very difficult for me to be away from him….. I am missing him too too much with every passing moment!!!! And heights was when I was not able to wish him tonight. His phone is working but it is for someone else, his friend messaged me around 11: 28 pm saying that H asked him recharge his cell phone but as all the shops were closed by then so he couldnt and I have a night shift so you can talk with him tomorrow.

Well no way I can get in touch with him before morning when he will come back to his private room…..

I was just numb for moment when I read the message , Mah senses stopped working for a few min—I mean its Mr.H’s birthday and I am so helpless that I can’t talk with him……I was all so excited throughout the day!!! …I couldn’t control mah tears……. When I got his friend’s message I was sitting down near the pool side waiting for his phone to come back to life……seeing me crying the guard uncle on duty came to me and asked ,“ Hey sweetie what happen to you ,why are you crying, you where so happy now what happen suddenly?” Wiping mah tears I told him I told him its mah love’s birthday and I cant talk wid him……… He looked at mah face n was quite for a moment and then said--- Aha!! Silly gal don’t cry…. Lets do one thing, lets celebrate his birthday----- here what do u say—that sound interesting to me…. it was 11: 40pm(15thJuly)…. I smiled listening to his idea and said, I’ll be back in a while.
I went upstairs n then straight in Mah Kitchen a looked around. I closed mah eyes for a while and then quickly started picking up things from this shelf n that shelf and some

from refrigerator. It took me 15 min to reach back near the pool side with all that stuff……I got some chocolates,a few ice-cream cups, Mah Fav. Tang juice, and some biscuits…..Guard uncle smiled at me when he saw all that… and said – U R CRAZY silly gal….. Then I said no uncle not me--- MaH 'H' is crazy…He laughed at me….

There where 2-3 couple sitting near the pool side, I asked all of them to join us….. I lighted one candle on the ice cream cup and exactly at 12am we cut the ice-cream cake…. And we all sang aloud---

Happy Birthday to you!

Happy Birthday to you!

Happy Birthday, Dear Mr.H, Happy Birthday to you!!


That moment was among the happiest one for me when the people around me sang the birthday rhymes for Mah Love….. Can’t tell you about mah feeling I had that moment….
Then closing mah eyes I prayed to God that that he gifts mah love not only those things on this special day that which he desires but also what he deserves……Honey, I hope you have a wonderful day, week, month, year, decade and LIFE. Iadore you and wish you a very happy birthday! We all had a small birthday party--wowow really its was great fun!! I just simply forgot that H is not with me for sometime and enjoyed the chilled ice-cream :)

Every moment is full of love

And every day is new

Honey! Just know this

That I always love you



My words are lost

And voice is gone!

I thought of saying so much

On this special day

Now all I can say

Is “HAPPY BIRTHDAY Honey Bunny”

Honey, I just wanted to tell you how proud I am that you r Mah Love. You are everything to me-mah best friend, mah strength, mah inspiration, and much, much more. I have learned so much about myself just being with you. You were very giving, loving, devoted , caring, commited, supportive, dependable person I have ever met……and I am unlucky that I am not going to be your gal…your life partner….I can’t imagine mah life without you in it. I just want you to know that I love you the most in mah life, I love you
honey and Happy Birthday!

This is for you only---

I wish that you could feel

My arms about you tight,

Holding you up close

All thru out the night.

To know that I am here

And never away far,

That I will remain

Where ever that you are.


That you could press back

Into my warm embrace,

And feel my soft touch

Warm against your face.

I wish that you could her

My softly whispered song,

To lull you into sleep

For it’s here that we belong.


That you could hear me say

All you need to hear,

As I tell you of my love

Whispered soft against your ear.

And you could feel my breath

Warm against your skin,

As I let my presence beg you

To let this true love in.


I wish that I could hold you

And whisper long into your night,

Never would you wonder then

As I held you to me tight…

Remember the ring from me.

Have a great birthday!! And I am missing you FOREVER AND EVER!

Angel,

......

Talk to me as lovers do

Talk to me as lovers do

Regardless
what you have to say,

And
I will gladly talk to you.

Be
kind, but most of all be true:

Throw
your masks and shields away.

Talk
to me as lovers do,

Anger,
pain, and boredom, too,

Let
all that"s in you come my way,

And
I will gladly talk to you.

We"ve
had rough times,

but
we get through:

We
choose through hurricanes to stay.

So
talk to me as lovers do.

Beneath
the storm I will renew

My
vow to love you more each day,

And
I will gladly talk to you.

All
darkness turns to light

when
you And I can weep

and
touch and play.

Come
talk to me as lovers do

And
I will gladly talk to you.

Mr.H

Made for each other

Present day!

Sahil lounged on the couch outside the living room and from the little parting in the drapes, he looked on at his friends, Danny and Manjari. Danny was working at Manjari’s eyelashes—lining them with kaajal. He loved her eyes and insisted that she wear kaajal all the time so that her eyes looked round, big and beautiful like—as he himself said—‘Bong babes’. ‘Leave it, will you! It’s done, goddamit!’ Sahil heard Manjari bawl at Danny. Their familiarity with each other suggested that they had once been through a period of great physical intimacy and were now just close friends. Finally, when they were done, they came out of the living room and looked at Sahil for his stamp of approval. ‘Perfect! You look gorgeous, darling,’ Sahil said, looking at Manjari. Manjari grinned from ear to ear, picked her purse, bid them both goodbye and left the apartment.

‘You know when you guys came out of the room and stood beside each other, both of you smiling at me like that, it brought on some memories, dude.’ Sahil said, breaking the icy silence between the two friends, when Manjari was gone on her blind date—her third in two weeks—and they were alone in the apartment.
‘Don’t even mention,’ Danny retorted with a wave of his hand as his shoulders dipped and he sank in the couch.
‘So what’s up with this blind-date thingy, anyway?’ Sahil wanted to get Danny to talk this evening.
‘I really don’t know. My best guess would be that some girl friend of hers bullshitted her into this.’
‘And you didn’t mind or say anything?’
‘You really think I have some power over her even now, you jackass?’
‘Whatever happened to those love promises then?!’
‘Well, they still stand, of course. We still live together you see, although in separate rooms.’ Danny spoke with a slight smile that never failed to charm his friend, only this time, it broke Sahil’s heart.
Nausea rode on the thick wisps of cigarette-smoke that hung in the air, but the two friends did little to ward it off. They had smoked killing poisons together innumerable number of times before too. Any poison was all but too familiar.
‘I cannot see how she does not see…’ Sahil spoke again.
‘She does see; we have always been conscious of each other’s feelings, in fact, our minds are full of each other’s minds, and stuffed to the brim. But that is beside the point. The point is that we have ceased to care now. We have ceased to love…’
‘But you do love her even now, don’t you?’
‘I never ask myself that. I never will.’
‘And does that not prove that you care for what she thinks and care little for what you think?’
‘Yeah, sounds rather poetic that if I do love her, I won’t ask myself if I do. And more importantly never ask her.’
‘Well, why the heck did you complicate things like this? Why did you not just break up?’

Danny took a long drag at the cigarette and his words came out with the smoke when he said, ‘Well, there was this sickeningly soft bed of friendship to fall back onto when we fell out of love.’

‘So?’ Manjari said, not quite sure where the conversation was headed with her ‘blind-date’, Suresh, who worked with Dell, Bangalore.
‘So, shall we start with the food first? Let us try the prawns. I hear they are divine down here,’ the man said.
‘Of course,’ she smiled, turning all her charms at him, knowing fully that they would work. They never failed with Danny and the man in front of her wasn’t half his worth.
‘So how long have you been in Bangalore?’ Manjari said, sipping the Pepsi.
‘Two years. Was in Madras before for quite sometime. I have been divorced, by the way.’
‘Oh, I am sorry.’
‘That is OK. I thought it appropriate to mention it earlier on itself.’
‘I appreciate that.’
‘So, you have been in some relationship too?’
‘Yeah, sort of…’ Manjari smiled curtly.
‘And its status now?’
‘Sorry?’
‘You are still in touch with him?’ he said, finally bringing on the question that Manjari had warded off until then.
‘Yeah, sort of…’
‘And in what way?’
‘Well, we kind of share the same apartment. Have to pay the bills together you see.’ Manjari did not care to hide her mischievous smile.
‘Oh, I see. So you mean…’
‘No,’—she broke in between—‘We do not mean anything to each other. It is just that we have not been able to find any other apartment until now, though we are looking. There are a lot of apartments under construction in Greater Bangalore I hear…’
‘You live with him and you come on a date with another man. What kind of people are you?’ Suresh retorted with a slight sneer.
Manjari was in no mood to explain what kind of people they were—she and Danny. She picked her purse and left sooner than any word could be exchanged.

‘Golden Enclave, Airport Road,’ she said to the rickshaw wallah as the man turned the metre and sped off the rickshaw through the rain-washed streets. Manjari squinted at the rains and was suddenly reminded of the first time when she and Danny had met. It had been the same setting: It was the same restaurant and it had been raining. She had not had her raincoat and so he had given her his. And one chance meeting had led to another and they had kept on meeting until they fell in love at the end of two weeks. It had been ethereal. No other relationship that she had been in had had more staying power than the one she had with Danny. How they had loved, how they were made for each other, how they had promised an eternity of love to one other… And today when some jerk had sneered at them; somewhere, somehow, and though she understood little why, her pride was hurt…

‘What kind of people are you?’

She knew that none besides them would understand what kind of people they were. How they had once loved and how they had poisoned it with their own private demons. And so the same love now spread like diseased water between the shores of their beings, overwhelming their lives; it tore them apart, and they sought solace in different places, in meeting different people, and keeping busy with other things and never asking their own selves, leave alone each other, certain questions.

The rain fell in torrents, and some of it seeped through the cloth-roof of the rickshaw and came onto her. It gave her a strong sense of dearth of privacy and security. She wanted to get back home as soon as possible. She saw a dog shivering, wet with the rain and she wanted to cry.

The rickshaw made its way through the slow-moving Bangalore traffic and it was well past mid-night when Manjari arrived in the apartment. By then, Sahil had left.
‘Make me some vodka, will you?’ Manjari said resting her body on the couch.
‘Sure,’ Danny replied to her. She looked sick after her day. He thought that the drink would give her some strength. He brought her the vodka and she reached with her hand in the dark for it; the glass touched the back of her hand and fell to the ground, shattering into pieces. Danny bent and reached for the broken pieces of glass. And as Manjari looked on at those broken pieces reflecting the dim light of the room, an overwhelming feeling of déjà vu gripped her. Suddenly, she reached for those broken pieces and started putting them together like a madwoman. Danny got out of her way and looked on at her as her hands worked feverishly with the broken glass until a piece of glass cut through her wrist. And had Danny not held her hands, she would have continued to fiddle with the pieces. She struggled with his hold for some time, finally giving in; she broke down and rested her head on his chest. For some reason he did not wipe off her tears, he only took her in his arms and stroked her hair and back; she wept incessantly. Something within Danny’s chest stiffened taking the shape of solid rock and she anchored herself to it as firmly as she could, but, she could not stop crying. She was inconsolable. She looked at the broken pieces of glass; they looked like disease that plagued her existence.

When she had cried her heart out, she lifted her head and looked into Danny’s eyes. She saw a tiny flame flicker in his eyes; he lifted her in his arms and took her to bed. In bed together, Manjari parted her lips and raised her eyes to him to whisper some sweet-nothings but Danny raised his finger and shut her. She was never good with words. She always tripped over them, breaking to small shreds the delicate string of love. He did not know if after that night they would still love each other, but, unlike the previous times, he was determined to keep them from hating each other.

Manjari’s eyes danced when she brought him coffee the next morning and her cheeks glowed as if reflecting the early morning light. They were lovers all over again after the previous night. They did not know till how long, though. They sipped the coffee together resting their heads against each other and looked on at the early morning light; as if making space for themselves inside of each other; at the same time pushing some evil thought down in some dark chamber of their collective consciousness, where it would rest for sometime.

Mr.H

Am back with an article from Sify - Maddy meets Murthy!

hey there howdy doody ladies n gents -

Ppl started wondering where Mr.H is? Come on guys I am tied up with too many task...but overall I am really proud to be called 'I'm busy ppl' :-). Am back with an article for you.............with Maddy meets Murthy!

Madhavan will be grilling the Infosys bigwig N R Narayana Murthy on the occasion of “Focus India Enclave” at India-Singapore Exposition. Maddy will cover issues pertaining to manpower, money and software exchange between the two countries.

A beaming Maddy, told Moviebuzz: “I have always been a big fan of Mr Narayana Murthy, and now I am so excited and nervous to be interviewing him”. The star has done an intensive research for the interview and he adds: "It is going to be a great experience. I have always admired the way Mr Murthy has lived and led his life so far.He is the man who pioneered the IT revolution in our Country. The topic will be- “Collaboration between India and Asian in IT’”. I have done my research on CSR (Corporate Social Responsibility)."

Recently Mr Narayana Murthy had said in an interview that Madhavan's is his favourite actor and that if ever a Bollywood actor had to interview him, it would have to be Maddy! A visibly excited Maddy has taken off from Chennai to Singapore on Independence day (August 15) evening with wife Sarita who is also a fan of Murthy.

Source : Sify.com

Mr.H

Dhirubhai Ambani's words of wisdom

Guys n Gals, I am back with the quotes of Mr.Dhirubhai Ambani.

* The problem with Indians is that we have lost the habit of thinking big!

* We can prove to the world that India can do it. That Indians are not afraid of competition. That India is a nation of achievers.

* I dream India of becoming a great economic superpower.

* We must forge a new partnership for a great India. A strong and constructive partnership between industry, government and society.

* We must always go for the best. Do not compromise on quality. Reject if it is not the best -- not only the best in India, but globally.

* If India wants to be a great nation, we must have courage to trust. This is my sincere belief.

* All we have to do is to break the shackles that chain the energies of our people, and India's economy will record a quantum leap and move into a new, higher orbit of growth, competitiveness and productivity.

* I can never fully repay the debt I owe to Mumbai. To all of you. My past was shaped in Mumbai.

* For those who dare to dream, there is a whole world to win!

* I am deaf to the word 'no.'

* True entrepreneurship comes only from risk-taking.

* Pursue your goal, even in the face of difficulties. Convert difficulties into opportunities. Keep your morale high, in spite of setbacks. At the end you are bound to succeed.

* My advice to young entrepreneurs is not to accept defeat in the face of odds. Challenge negative forces with hope, self-confidence and conviction. I believe that ambition and initiative will ultimately triumph. The success of the young entrepreneur will be the key to India's transformation in the new millennium.

* Dhirubhai will go one day. But Reliance's employees and shareholders will keep it afloat. Reliance is now a concept in which the Ambanis have become irrelevant.

* I have trusted people and they have put their trust in me. I have encouraged youth, and they have never let me down. I have asked my people to take initiative and to take risks. It has paid me rich dividends. I insist on excellence. This helps us to be leaders. Reliance is built on some of these principles.

* The secret of success was to have ambition and to know the minds of men.

* Growth has no limit. I keep revising my vision. Only when you dream it you can do it.

* I am 100 per cent pro-liberalisation. I do not think any industrialist is against it. But we should protect our industries, from unfair competition.

* There is no question about that (retirement). Business is my hobby. It is not a burden to me. In any case the business can run without me.

* I give least importance to being Number one. I consider myself to be fortunate in this position and would like to contribute to nation building in some way.

* Does making money excite me? No, but I have to make money for my shareholders. What excites me is achievement, doing something difficult. In this room extraordinary things must happen.

* Think big, think fast, think ahead. Ideas are no one's monopoly.

* Our dreams have to be bigger. Our ambitions higher. Our commitment deeper. And our efforts greater. This is my dream for Reliance and for India.

* First and foremost, I owe my success and achievements to the affection, friendship and trust of millions of employees, customers, shareholders, and business associates, who have stood by me and been a major source of my strength all along.

* I believe that the success cannot be attributed to the qualities and achievements of one individual, or even a group of individuals, but has to be viewed as a triumph of a process, and a spirit that binds the entire family together.

* I consider myself a pathfinder. I have been excavating the jungle and making the road for others to walk. I like to be the first in everything I do.

* I, as school kid, was a member of the Civil Guard, something like today's NCC. We had to salute our officers who went round in jeeps. So I thought one day I will also ride in a jeep and somebody else will salute me.

* Give the youth a proper environment. Motivate them. Extend them the support they need. Each one of them has infinite source of energy. They will deliver.

* You do not require an invitation to make profits.

* If you work with determination and with perfection, success will follow.

* Between my past, the present and the future, there is one common factor: Relationship and Trust. This is the foundation of our growth.

* We bet on people.

* Meeting the deadlines is not good enough, beating the deadlines is my expectation.

* Don't give up, courage is my conviction.

* We cannot change our rulers, but we can change the way they rule us.

* Roll up your sleeves and help. You and your team share the same DNA.

* Be a safety net for your team.

* Always be the silent benefactor. Don't tom-tom about how you helped someone.

* Dream big, but dream with your eyes open.

* Leave the professional alone!

* Change your orbit, constantly!

* Money is not a product by itself, it is a by-product, so don't chase it.

Source: http://specials.rediff.com/money/2007/aug/02slid1.htm

Mr.H

Songs for the season

Ma fav. numbers...



Mr.H

ABCD of Achievement....

A void negative sources, people, things and habits.

B elieve in yourself.

C onsider things from every angle.

D on't give up and don't give in.

E njoy life today, yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.

F amily and Friends are hidden treasures. Seek them and enjoy their riches.

G ive more than you planned to give.

H ang on to your dreams.

I gnore those who try to discourage you.

J ust do it!

K eep on trying, no matter how hard it seems.

I t will get better.

L ove yourself first and foremost.

M ake it happen.

N ever lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal.

O pen your eyes and see things as they really are.

P ractice makes perfect.

Q uitters never win and winners never quit.

R ead, study and learn about everything important in life.

S top Procrastination.

T ake control of your own destiny.

U nderstand yourself in order to understand others.

V isualize it.

W ant it more than anything.

X ccelerate your efforts.

Y ou are unique, nothing can replace you.

Z ero in on your target, and go for it!!

Mr.H

Wanna Suceed? Fail First!

If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.' Thomas Watson, founder of IBM, uttered these famous words.

As you try to leave an impressive mark at work, a failure can bring unexpected twists and turns. How you deal with failure is what will ultimately help you succeed.

The question is: are you smart enough to learn from your mistakes?

What is considered workplace failure

While there's no standard definition of workplace failure, you know it's happening to you if you can associate with any of the following examples at your workplace:

Not meeting deadlines consistently

If you get the stick from your boss repeatedly for not finishing tasks on time, you seriously need to consider a course in time management.

If you have taken on too much workload and set yourself an unrealistic timeframe, you may have just set yourself up for failure.

Tip: Trust your instincts. When you feel bothered, speak up. It may take some guts initially, but it will save you face later. In case you miss the chance, request for a private meeting with the boss to explain your feelings about a short notice to meet a tight deadline.

Fighting with colleagues/ peers

In this age of teamwork, conflicts with people and petty fights with your boss definitely get labeled as failure.

Tip: Find common ground and never take sides in case of a conflict. If you are involving your supervisor, tell him/ her how the conflicts within the team affect your productivity and morale -- that way, you will not sound like a whiny complainer.

Not keeping promises

Your customer's product is not ready or has not been delivered. It's a massive service failure and you have no clue how to salvage the relationship.

Tip: Be honest with your customer and tell them you will do whatever it takes to fix the issue. Never hide behind policies or procedures.

Your clients are human and will appreciate your honest effort. The next time they give you business, surprise them with super fast delivery to gain the credibility back.

Making excuses

Constant excuses can label you as undependable; you could be considered overly defensive and resistant. You may be strong otherwise; however, if you're always covering up your shortcomings with excuses, your negative reputation will make you succumb to failure.

Tip: Face the facts and stop procrastinating. Take other people's help to get things done.

If you still fail, apologise and fix the issue without hiding behind fictitious explanations. If your boss says the report was late, you can choose to ignore but it does not become any less true.

My great idea bombed

You creative pursuits got the better of you and you spent the company's money designing a product so way ahead of it is time that nobody bought it. While you were expecting laurels for your creativity, your boss asks you for a report to justify the investment.

Tip: Acknowledge the failure but don't apologise; risk-taking is a skill required to succeed. Tell your colleagues you know one more way of 'How not to do it'. Analyse what went wrong and crack it the next time around.

First, take time out

"The problem with many young professionals is that they aim for a flawless career from the moment they enter the workforce. They have high aspirations and want to be seen as credible professionals with a 100 percent track record of success. They don't realise that nobody made it big without failing a few times and the ones who succeed are the ones who bounce back from their failures," says Rohini Verma, a Delhi based clinical psychologist.

Take time out to think about what's going wrong with your strategies. Don't be in a rush to get into the disaster recovery mode. Take a small break; go for a vacation or a long drive.

Try meditation or yoga to help you ease your mind and focus. The objective is to take your mind off work so you can think about workplace challenges from a new perspective.

Next, analyse your failure

There could be several reasons but, if you get to the bare bones, there are two factors that stand out:

You are stuck in the wrong job

This is a no brainer. You need to have the aptitude for the work you are doing. If you're in the wrong job, you tend burn out quickly and get tired of your job, which leads to more failures.

However, figuring what you want to do for a living day in and day out takes some consideration. Try to get diverse experience in many fields and then decide what you would like to do for a career.

You are just plain careless

Maybe you failed because of your own sloppy work, or you just did not spend enough time understanding what you were doing or you made some hasty decisions or misunderstood your job profile.

If these happen to be the reason/s, you need to listen, accept the facts and shape up for the job.

Now, take steps

Workplace failures are a part of life but, if dealt with well, can turn out to be life changing events. Here are some smart strategies to repair your workplace failures and mistakes:

Acknowledge your failure

Taking ownership for your mishap is the first and the most important step. Blaming others rather than yourself for the new product nobody seems to be buying will create tension at office and spoil your working relationship with others as well. You are much better off focusing on the actual sense of the issue and what went wrong.

Don't make it personal

Criticism of your work does not mean your colleagues/ customers are targeting you as an individual. If you goofed up during an important client presentation, it doesn't make you a bad employee nor does it negate your prior accomplishments.

Learn from your failure

So what if your idea bombed? You should use this to your advantage in preparation for your next big project. Analyse what went wrong or could have been altered. Maybe you could have done some more research, or could have tested your idea before you went public or perhaps taken the advice of some senior members of the team.

"Treat work life like a game of chess. One bad move does not mean it's the end of the game. If you take a grip of the situation, you'll always get the opportunity to strike back," says Prabh Sharan, training manager with Kingfisher Airlines, Mumbai.

Make genuine friends

Have people on whom you can bank in good as well as bad times. Take their advice. Ask them for feedback on your ideas and let them play the devil's advocate. In an already competitive world, any help you can get should be welcomed. Don't run the solo race.

Don't get emotional

You are bound to feel frustrated and upset when you miss an important deadline that impacts a client, but don't blow it by making it all public.

The angry young man title will not get you any rewards at the office. Maintain your dignity and be quick with your apology in order to salvage your reputation.

Never say die

'No guts, no glory' is a clich worth repeating.

Failure can be one of the best teaching tools; the best part is it doesn't have to be your own mistake in order for you to learn from it.

In the words of Michael D Eisner, chairman & CEO of Disney Corporation, 'Recovering from failure is often easier than building from success.'

Even if you fall flat on your face, you can always use the valuable lesson you learnt on your way to the top.

Source: http://in.rediff.com/getahead/2006/may/16fail.htm

Mr.H

Love Story (Reality)

Friend: Happy birthday!
She: Haan…tha……nk yo….u…was just getting up from the bed.
Friend: Oh! That means I am the first to wish you!
She: Naa! He has already wished me at 12 in the night.

Friend: Who???
She: Come on, who else, Nitin.

Friend: Oh, ok. So, what’s the plan for today?
She: Nitin told me that he has a surprise gift for me for my Birthday. And also we are going to Flower Show today. I am excited! I have never seen the flower show that happens in Lal Baug. Actually that itself is the most wonderful gift for me.

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Friend: “Did you go to Palace grounds all the way from Basavanagudi, to see Bryan Adam’s show!!! Who accompanied you?”
She: Nitin

Friend: By the way, who referred your CV in SoCrates? I mean you don’t know anyone there, right?
She: No, he forwarded my CV to one of his friends there.

Friend: I heard that the HR round interview went on till 8pm in the night. I think you faced difficulty in returning to your room.
She: No, he had come to pick me up. He came from his office, dropped me to my room and he returned to his room at around 11pm. He didn’t have dinner also. I asked him to have at my room. Poor Nitin.
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Friend: If you are supposed to go home tomorrow itself then what about reservation?
She: I have told him, he will go to Majestic and would get it done, and he told he has some work in Majestic. That’s why I am relaxed a bit.
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Friend: How was your written test in Philips?
She: I failed yaar. The day before the test I had prepared perfectly. Nitin had come to our room. He taught me the basics of embedded programming concepts. I was very confident only because of him. But something else was in store for me.

Friend: Then, what did you do on Sunday?
She: We had gone to see “Lakshya”. He doesn’t see Hindi movies. But as I was upset after failing in the Philips written test, he took me for movie. I was very happy and surprised that he himself decided for a Hindi movie, and he was very happy that I enjoyed the movie. And you know; we had dinner in Pizza hut. It was his belated B’day treat!

Friend: And, what was your belated gift
She: Gift!! I had given the gift on his B’day itself. I was the first to call him at 12 in the night, he was busy throughout the day, and somehow we could meet in the evening and I gifted him with a cute time piece with a nice quote on it. He doesn’t have time sense, so my time piece must always remind him of this. That day he didn’t give me any treat as he had to go back to office. Yesterday I had a fight over this, you know! Poor kid.
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Friend: Hello…what about our sari shopping program in Malleshwaram?
She: Listen, I will call you later.

Friend: You didn’t call me back in the morning, so I called now.
She: Yeah, when you called I was in Koramangala, with Nitin. He was very upset in the morning. He had a fight with his elder brother. So, it wouldn’t have been fair on my part to leave him alone. If I am with him in such situation very soon he comes back to normalcy. So I postponed the Malleshwaram program.
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Friend: Hey! What happened? You seem to be very happy today.
She: Why not? You know today is one of the most happiest days for me. Nitin got an onsite assignment in UK, for 6 months! That’s why I am very happy. All of his hard work paid today. He had been waiting for this opportunity since long. He’ll be leaving next month.

Friend: You will miss him.
She: Badly. I am so much dependent on him. I must thank Sanju, through him only I got to know Nitin. Without Nitin it would have been very difficult for me to stay in this alien city with no friends, relatives and on top of all, no job. He has been so caring friend all through my tough times in this city, he is so mature, so understanding, so trustworthy…a true friend.

Friend: He loves you yaar.
She: I know.

Friend: And you? Don’t you love him?
She: I don’t want to.

Friend: Don’t tell me. You also feel for him.
She: I know yaar. He has everything that I expect in my dream-life-partner. I know I can never get a true life partner like him. But I don’t want to commit.

Friend: What is stopping you? I really don’t understand. When Miya-beevi are razi kya karega kazi?
She: Please…don’t say like that. I never told him that I love him or something like that.

Friend: Is he a fool not to understand your feelings which are so clear from outside only? Poor fellow, don’t leave him alone.
She: I have told him everything about my family. He knows how orthodox my parents are. They can never expect me marrying a guy from a different caste. They trust me. Come what may, I will not hurt my parent’s feelings. I cannot imagine also. Now they are happily searching a guy for me in my native place.

Friend: Hmm, I don’t understand at all.
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She: This Saturday I have to go home, a guy is coming to see me.
Friend: Oh! Is it? Good news yaar. Your first interview! Wish you all the best.

Friend: Any guesses, who is he?
She: Please yaar. I am least bothered and least interested. For the sake of my parents’ happiness I have agreed for this.
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Friend: What about the interview, I was expecting your call actually?
She: Nothing so special. I didn’t like the guy’s attitude. I told my parents clearly. My parents are very understanding and so they too told me that they won’t go ahead with this matter.

Friend: But still you should have analyzed properly.
She: I shared my views with Nitin. He had called me the next day. He didn’t suggest me anything. He didn’t tell me to say “yes” or “no”, he didn’t preach what is right or what is wrong. But after talking to him I was satisfied that whatever decision I took was right.
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Friend: Yesterday your mobile was engaged for more than half an hour. I kept trying, but I slept after 11pm.
She: Yeah, I was talking to Nitin. He is very much worried about my marriage. He is concerned whether I would get a guy of my choice or not, whether I would be happy with him or not. I was very sad to know this. But I am helpless. I pacified him and convinced that whatever my parents do, that will be the best for me, so no need to worry.

Friend: How Nitin will feel after you get married? Will he not be upset all the time?
She: Time will change everything. He will start living again. Was he not leading a normal life before I came into his life? It’s all matter of time. Even I can’t do anything other than pacifying him and myself with these philosophical statements.
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Finally “She” got engaged with a guy of her parent’s choice (with her “yes” of course). She is in touch with both Nitin and the new “him” regularly through chatting in Yahoo Messenger.

Finally “She” got happily married to “him”, very soon converting Nitin into memories, but deleting the memories was slow and almost impossible for Nitin.
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Why do girls/guys do like this?

She needs him when she is new to the city.
She needs his help in finding out a PG or hostel for her
She makes him prepare a good-format-CV for her
She needs him to drop her to the venue of a walk-in interview
She expects him to collect all the consultants’ mail ids
She needs him while preparing for the interviews
She needs his help in identifying HER skill sets, strengths and weakness!
She wants him to conduct a mock-interview for her!
She gives her yahoo mail id password so that he can foward her CV to consultants through internet in his office (in office hours!)
She needs him for boosting her confidence when she fails in the 1st written test in her life
She wants him to take her to M.G Road, Brigade Road, Forum and Big bazaar
She needs his company while visiting all the temples in Malleshwaram on Vijayadashami, though he is not a believer of God.
She asks his opinions on importance of marriage
She wants him to be a shoulder to cry when her parents force her for marriage
She needs his help in preparing her mind for the first interview with a guy
She needs his help in deciding about the marriage proposal
She loves to share her happiness with him when she gets engaged
She expects him to attend her marriage (Come on guys, he is a true friend of her!)

The guy does all this honestly, without saying a single “No”.

He loves her.
He cares for her.
Whatever he is today; it is only because of her entry in to his life.
He treats her as his life.
She changed him.
It is only because of her, he is smiling.
It is only because of her, he has forgotten the past bitter experiences.
She is the first person in his life to influence him so much.
He was the “bhatka hua musafir” and she came as his “manzil”.
He threw the cigarette in the dust-bin because of her.
He has cultivated a positive attitude towards marriage and family because of her.
She is the perfect Indian woman he has ever seen.
He keeps a photo of Lord Krishna in his purse now; only because of her (also it is her favorite deity!).
Weekends come and go without his notice; it is only because of her.
He stopped going to office on Weekends; it is only because of her.
Onsite project was his dream; he puts all his efforts now, not to get an onsite assignment but to get a job for her in Bangalore.
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The girl depends on the guy as if she never lived and can never live without him. Guy behaves as if he has taken birth on this earth only to care for that lady. She treats him as a shoulder to cry and he treats her as a puppy in a rain storm. She loves to depend and he loves to take care, finally they fall in so called “love”, ultimately adding an unnecessary trauma to life. Girls want a perfect life partner but they don’t want to hurt their parents’ feelings, guys know that they can’t get her but still they want to care for her(because they want her to be happy wherever she is and with whoever she is).Great! Or shall I say crap!

Or I think no need to be so serious about it.

She gets engaged, life goes on…
Long lasting phone calls become short and sweet, life goes on…
A heart which was used to “Good morning” SMSs learns to be happy with just the “Happy weekend” SMSs, life goes on…
No more “Unread messages” in the yahoo mail, life goes on…
No one to share coffee at “Barista” at the end of a tiring working day, life goes on…
No more consultants’ calls to be diverted and life goes on…
He starts smoking again, life goes on…
He is still living in flashback, and no looking back for her, but life goes on…
He gets promoted, he is a manager, she is mother of two kids, and life goes on…
He is in his late twenties, happily married to a beautiful, understanding, mature, caring, broad minded wife! Anyway life goes on…

Mr.H

Good things

Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so, you are insulting yourself
-ALEN STRIKE.

You are not responsible for what people think about you.
But you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.
- STANLEY FERRARD.

A man is lucky if he is the first love of a Woman.
A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.
-CHARLES DICKENS.

Write your Sad times in Sand, Write your Good times in Stone.
-GEORGE BERNARD SHAW.

Behind every successful man, there is an untold pain in his heart.
-BILL JACOBS.

Without your involvement you can’t succeed. With your involvement you can’t fail.
-Dr. ABDUL KALAM.

Love your job but don’t love your Company because you may not know
when your company stops loving you.
-NARAYANA MOORTHY

You may get DELAYED to reach your Targets.
But every step you take towards your target is EQUAL to Victory.
-KARL MARX.

It’s better to loose your Ego to the one you Love,
than to loose the one you LOVE because of EGO.
-JOHN KEATS.

Don’t make promise when you are in JOY. Don’t reply when you are SAD.
Don’t take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
-Author Unknown (by me)

When you start caring about yourself, you start loving somebody.
But when start caring about others somebody will start loving you.
-Author Unknown (by me)

What is the Secret of SUCCESS... ? “RIGHT DECISIONS”
How do you make Right Decisions... ? “EXPERIENCE”
How do you get Experience.. . ? “WRONG DECISIONS”
-Author Unknown (by me)

"Happiness is not perfected until it is shared"
-Jane Porter

Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it."
- Lou Holtz

Boldness is the Fruit of Hope.
-Phillipine Proverb

Gratitude is the heart's money.
-French Proverb

Action without Thought is like shooting without
aim. - American Proverb

Do not say to your neighbor, "Come back later;
I'll give it tomorrow"--when you now have it with you.

Still achieving, Still pursuing.
-American Proverb.

The difficult is done at once,the impossible takes a little longer.
-slogan of the US Armed Forces.

Ask for advice but do what you think is best.
-greek proverb.

The Unexamined life is not worth living.
-Socrates.

Practice hope. As hopefulness becomes a habit, you can achieve a permanently happy spirit.
-Norman Vincent Peale

Hope is a waking dream.
-Norman Vincent Peale

Hope is always available to us. When we feel defeated, we need only take a deep breath and say, "Yes," and hope will reappear.
-Marsha Sientar.

True hope dwells on the possible, even when life seems to be a plot written by someone who wants to see how much adversity we can overcome.
True hope responds to the real world, to real life; it is an active effort.
-Monroe Forester.

Never Despair.
-Walter Anderson.

If matters go badly now, they will not always be so.
-Horace.

Progress is the activity of today and the assurance of tomorrow.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

If U think "YES" then it is Yes, If you think "It is Possible" then it is Possible, if you think "I can" then You can and finally if U think "I'll Hit" then definitely You will Hit. So "Hit Until U Hit"!
-Hasan B.Navaz.

Mr.H